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looking to connect with other bisexual women... [09 Jan 2011|09:55pm]

I'm looking to make friends and possibly eventually have a relationship. I am currently in a relationship with a man and want one with a woman too. I'm hoping for a lifetime relationship, I'm not into casual sex.


1. Age
2. Location
Vermont, United States
3. Status
in a relationship with a man, looking for a woman
4. Describe Your Ideal Mate (Tall, Short, Slender,Thick, Blonde, Etc)
curvy, 5'2"-5'8"
5. Places you Can be Reached (AIM, Email, Yahoo, Etc)
email nokomiswolfsong@yahoo.com, Yahoo nokomiswolfsong

more about me:
     I'm looking for a woman to be good friends with, and then let anything else develop naturally, if it does. Mostly, I need a good friend. My best female friend lives in Missouri...makes it hard to get together. I haven't seen her in 3 years.
     I have a man in my life who I'm very happy with, but I am looking for things only a woman can give me, and I'm not necessarily talking sexual. (Although that IS part of it). I want a woman's support, empathy, and someone who gets that I'm kind of a girly girl and is okay with that, or even finds it a plus. I LOVE the color pink, and glittery sparkly things. Pink roses are my favorite flower, and I still love some children's things, such as collecting stuff with Belle from Beauty and the Beast. (I do, however, enjoy adult things too of course. And wolves are my favorite animal, my spirit guides. Also, there is a touch of leather in with my lace.) Are you someone who could get excited with me over the feminine side of life? Can I show you a snowglobe with glitter and fairies and have you "get it" and be happy, or are you the type to roll your eyes?
      I am extremely attracted to women, but not all women (though I'm picky about men too!) I have been sexually active with a woman, and would like to be again, but prefer men for the most part sexually. My ideal relationship, I think, would be to have a very close woman friend to explore with sexually, to develop a strong relationship with, but with her knowing that my relationship with M, (My on-and-off boyfriend), is vitally important to me as well and I need a relationship with both of them.
I prefer Playboy to Playgirl, and will only watch girl-on-girl porn. I love to look at womens' bodies (those I am attracted to). I love the softness and the curves. I prefer my women on the feminine side. I guess that's it for now! Feel free to ask me more...

pic of me:  
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Thinking and writing. [24 Aug 2009|01:19pm]

[ mood | crappy ]

To whom it concerns:

I write this as a woman who has had her broken 3 times in less then 6 months. I know it sounds very little time but its time I felt that has gone on forever. I wish I could let go to feels that are still there for that one certian girl. Those feelings saying that I lost her completely, not only as in a relationship but also in a friendship that I thought would last. I write this in hopes that I can remove the hurt in my heart. It hurt everytime that the only time i hear from here is when she wants something. She dont know how much it hurts. I write this to explain that I wish I could just shake her and tell her what she is doing to me. I see her in happiness and thats all I wish for her but why I cant I find happiness. I try hard to find it but I never can. I know I am trying to hard to find it, but it seems thats all she wants me to do. She thinks the only way to be happy is to be with someone which is not always true. At times I am happy to be alone but deep down I feel there is something missing. There is something that I want and yet it either hiding or so far away it feels like it should be in space. As much as I hate this feeling I must live on the find people who are out there that wont throw me to the side. Someone who is not using me or playing with me. I have been played with to much in my young life. I just wish that I could just STOP! Stop with the endless drama stop with the playing. Doesnt anyone know how much it hurts to be rejected?! Not only by people but also by the person I considered my best friend. She dumped me to be with her girlfriend which is understandable but I wish she would get her head out of her girlfriends ass and see what the hell is going on! She how much we all have changed and stop being so damn attached to that player she calls her girlfriend! Cant you tell I dont like this girlfriend? Yeah I cant stand her but all I can do is smile and try not to knock her teeth straight. I write this to let anger out. So that the tears dont show and I can keep wearing this mask. So I can continue to be strong and be the person I know I am.

To wear a mask is not to hide your feelings from others but to hide the feelings from yourself. I know its weird to say this but its true. If one can hide their feelings from their selves they can keep going. I know one must open the heart to let the love in. But what if you are scared to get hurt or open up? I think that why I wear a mask til that one person can take it off and see me. What happens you have  feelings for someone and they only want to be friends. I hide those feelings and keep being her friend as much as it hurts me. All I can say is that i can be her friend and I know that I will be the one she runs to when she needs help. Its not much to some but its alot to me. I just wish it was not like that sometimes.

I will end here and hope that my heart will rest and heals after all the rejection it has been through. Wishing there was something to stop this heartache.

For not and a while

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[28 Nov 2007|08:56pm]

 Ok so I  am looking for a girlfriend. Well, I have a friend that is bisexual too, and she is trying to hook me up with someone. I hope it works out. I've never had a girlfriend and really want one. I'm not sure on how soon is to soon for sex though. I mean when I lost my virginity I waited six months into the relationship. I don't know if that's to long or to early or what. And I'm not quite sure what I'm supposed to do. But I'm not quite as worried about that. I'm just real excited!!!
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[09 May 2007|11:42am]

To those of you wondering who I am, I had  the LJ name of Naughtygrrrl. It was definitely time for a change. That name was something I came up with many moons ago and doesn't reflect who I am. i didn't want to use a name that sounded like some frat boy's dream of an online girlfriend.

With a  new LJ name, comes new IM screennames.

AIM: w1tchprincess
Yahoo: w1tchprincess

Isn't it nice how that works out? :)

So I've rejoined the community and feel free to add me under the new name :)

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msn group [23 Jan 2007|04:25pm]
http://groups.msn.com/bi-girlsonly join my new group....send a pic have sum fun
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any one else bored!!!! [20 Dec 2006|12:21pm]
say hi if ya wanna....
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Question(s) [17 Oct 2006|04:14pm]

[ mood | confused ]

As redundant as this is probably going to sound, I'm going to say it anyway:

After waiting for over a year, I finally ran into a girl who really struck a chord with me in a positive way. It happened fairly gradually, but only recently-- since we've begun to hang out more and more often-- have I really began to feel like she is someone I could definitely see myself with in the near future. My problem, however, is this: it's still very out-of-the-ordinary for me to go about flirting with someone of the same sex in the "right" way. What I've noticed about girls is that we're much harder to read when it comes to dating each other. I've been told by a good friend of hers that she's interested in me, but I'm not sure how to respond to that because girls and guys are so different in this perspective. 

Again, I apologize if this sounds redundant, but it's something that is still very new to me. How would one go about executing this without seeming too invasive? I've had that happen to me a few times with a few different girls, which is why I wasn't interested in them. They were far too pushy and far too eager to take control of everything, which is what I want to avoid here. Because this is as new as it is, I would appreciate some constructive feedback. Thanks for listening. =]

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[14 Oct 2006|01:21pm]

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Start a fucking <lj user=dyke_riot>!
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[14 Oct 2006|01:20pm]

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[18 Jun 2006|12:32pm]

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[16 Jun 2006|11:38pm]

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Join if you like. :)
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[13 Jun 2006|08:06pm]

There's a new site for gays and lesbians.
(and bisexuals, too!)
join it for free!

It's a profile site, where you can upload 99 pictures! That's a lot! It's new, so you can make a unique username (like mine is kate) and agh it's so much fun!

It also involves writing, reading, and ranking articles regarding the gblt community.

My personal goal is to get 50 people to join!
I'm not sure I can do it, but I'm trying!

click this link to join so i can keep track of my goal
. <3 thank you, babies.
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[07 May 2006|09:32pm]


Requirements to join:
[App] Must be bisexual
[App] Must be beautiful
[App] Must be female
[App] Must be 14+
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Show some love [01 May 2006|08:20pm]

Yesterday I was in a great rage because I saw for the first time one of the horrible Fred Phelps's propaganda videos. It filled me with anger, and shock, and contempt, and sadness.

But then, i've found this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sfln-GJ2D6E&search=Fred%20Phelps&watch2
and i kept crying for nearly an hour. It's a very moving video, very well made, very true. And it made me want to DO something, even if just a little something.
So this is it: watch it and tell me what you think. The message I want to bring is: your are not alone.

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Basic Introduction... [27 Mar 2006|12:07am]

[ mood | hopeful ]

1.) Age: 16
2.) Location: Portland, Oregon
3.) Status: In the bisexual world, very single.
4.) Describe your ideal mate: Hair color doesn't matter; taller than me (I'm 4'11"); medium weight; race does NOT matter to me; knows how to be romantic; doesn't take life TOO seriously, but isn't TOO immature or naive about things; open-minded/non-judgemental.
5.) Places you can be reached: AIM- Mistyxeyes16 or Email- auburnidentity16@yahoo.com

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[24 Mar 2006|07:43am]

[ mood | thirsty ]

1. Age: 15
2. Location: New York
3. Status: Single, very single
4. Describe Your Ideal Mate: Around my hight (im 5'2") normal size body, dark hair, loud, funny, sweet, kinda, romantic, know when to be serious.
5. Places you Can be Reached- AIM:Fallinin2Fantasy, MSN: gothiceskimo@hotmail.com, yahoo: Halloween1999EP, e-mail NoWayCantGetTheRainbow@yahoo.com

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More About Me, In Case You're Interested... [09 Mar 2006|10:03pm]

[ mood | bored ]

Name: Ashley
Birthdate: June 1st
Birth place: Portland, OR
Eye Color: Blue-green
Hair Color: Dark red (naturally)
Right or Lefty: Righty
Zodiac Sign: Gemini

Your heritage: Irish
What Shoes Did You Wear Today: Black-and-white Volcom flip-flops
Your fears: I'm claustrophobic
Your perfect pizza: Pepperoni and pineapple
Goal you'd like to achieve: Become a successful journalist

Your most overused phrase: Rad.
Your thoughts first waking up: Ugghhh... sooo sleepy....
Your best physical feature: Probably my eyes and my lips.
Your bedtime: Whenever I'm tired

Pepsi or Coke: Either one
Single or group dates: Single. Sometimes group dates are fun, though.
Adidas or Nike: Doesn't matter to me.
Lipton Tea or Nestea: Nestea.
Chocolate or vanilla: Chocolate!!
Cappuccino or coffee: Coffee.

Smoke: Nope.
Sing: Yes.
Take a shower: Yes, yes.
Have a crush?: Yes...
Think you've been in love: Mmm-hmm.
Like(d) high school: Socially, yes.
Want to get married: Maybe.
Get motion sickness: Not really.
Think you're a health freak: Occasionally.
Get along with your parents: Ehhh...
Like thunderstorms: Definitely!!
Play an instrument: Piano and some guitar.

Drank alcohol: Nope.
Been asked out on a date: I suppose you'd consider it a date.
Gone to the mall: Nope.
Eaten Sushi: Mmmm, yes.
Been on stage: Yes.
Been dumped: No, thank God.
Gone skating: Nope.
Gone skinny dipping: No, that's for the summer.
Dyed your hair: No, I like my natural color for now.
Stolen anything: No.

Played a game that required removal of clothing: Strip-poker. Didn't go very far though.
Gotten beaten up: Yes.
Changed who you were to fit in: In middle school I may have. Since then I haven't though. I figured out who I was for the most part and I intend to keep it that way.

Age you hope to be married: Mid to late 20's at the earliest.
Describe your dream wedding: Haven't thought much about it, actually.
What do you want to be when you grow up: A serious journalist.
What country would you most like to visit: Italy!!

Best eye color?: That's not crucial to me.
Best hair color?: Whatever.
Short or long hair: Medium length.
Height: Taller than me, but not too much so.
Best first date location: Wherever, as long as it's a relaxed environment for both of us.
Articles of clothing?: Anything that's not too preppy.
Best kiss location: Where we're alone (for the most part, anyway) and the timing is perfect.

Number of people I can trust completely: 4.
Number of CD's I own: 70+
Number of piercings: Just my ears, but I plan on more.
Number of tattoos: None yet.
Number of times been on T.V.: I was on the news once.
Number of times my name has appeared in the Newspaper: Never.
Number of things in my past that I regret: Zero. I don't do regret because it's like taking one step forward and two steps back. It just doesn't work.

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Just Saying Hi [09 Mar 2006|08:22am]

[ mood | awake ]

1.) Age:
16, soon to be 17.
2.) Location:
Beaverton, OR, USA.
3.) Status:
I have a boyfriend, but I'd really like a girlfriend to add to my life.
4.) Describe Your Ideal Mate (Tall, Short, Slender,Thick, Blonde, Etc):
Not TOO much taller than me (I'm 4'10"). I also don't like it when girls where ten pounds of makeup every day. Girls who are borderlining on annorexic are not attractive to me, either. I don't really have a preference as far as eye color or hair color goes. Race does NOT matter to me. As long as you're open-minded and you have a lot to say (and a good sense of humor), I'm all for it! ^.^
5.) Places you Can be Reached (AIM, Email, Yahoo, Etc):
AIM- Mistyxeyes16
Email- auburnidentity16@yahoo.com

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new.. [02 Mar 2006|10:50am]

Hi my name is Viviana ..
1. Age:: 22
2. Location:: Cali- Laguna hills
3. Status:: single- bi
4. Describe Your Ideal Mate:: o.O.. this was a hard one.. I dont judge people.. but i guess.. I would like them to be taller then me.. dark hair.. open minded, is still into having a good time, would need to be around my age or older.. 20-22 is fine... I love to read.. so I guess she/ he would not mind having stack's of books falling over them.. ^^;; kidding.. Im still into anime and RPG games mostly PS2 games..
5. Places you Can be Reached:: vivxbutterfly@yahoo.com

people say Im a nice person.. well most of the time, It's a bit hard for me to open up due to pervious relationships. i fear getting hurt again so I'm looking for someone who is patient.

^^ I'm mostly hoping to make friends who are into the same things that i am.. or can relate to being judged for being different.
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[19 Feb 2006|06:21pm]


1. Age-15
2. Location-ny
3. Status-single
4. Describe Your Ideal Mate - tall short,thin,fat,I don't care about looks
5. Places you Can be Reached- puple_panda,billiejlover91,

Sorry but I don't have any pics
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